Shidduch GPS Vol. 1

Q&A, Real-Life Stories, Powerful Messages and Clear Conclusions
Direction and Guidance from Renowned Dating Coach Mrs. Tzirel Rubinstein

• We are always told that there’s no perfect shidduch, and I believe it. So it’s obvious that compromising is a must. I just don’t get it: How far should one compromise?
• How should I handle my son’s indecision with shidduchim?
• How often should I be contacting shadchanim, to remind them about my daughter, without feeling like a nuisance?
• I recently got engaged, but I must confess that I am not a happy kallah. Nothing went wrong, the dates were nice and comfortable, and the chassan fits the checklist, but I am not excited... I find myself obsessively thinking how miserable I am, when this should be the most amazing time of my life… Could you please explain this phenomenon?

As a longtime, popular dating coach in the frum community, Mrs. Tzirel Rubinstein has decades of experience with the numerous typical—and not-so-typical—questions and issues that come up throughout the dating process and engagement period. For years, her articles on this topic have been featured weekly in Hamodia, with thousands of avid readers devouring each one. A compilation of those articles, Shidduch GPS gives direct and spot-on answers to the varied questions asked by singles, their parents, and shadchanim.

Follow Mrs. Rubinstein as she ably navigates the highways and byways of shidduchim with her trademark wit, wisdom, and above all, faith in the Ultimate Shadchan.